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How to keep your cool when your boy has lost his!

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I am an experienced public speaker and workshop leader.

I have been featured on podcasts and TV, and have run workshops for schools, businesses and parent groups across the US, Europe & The Middle East.

The workshop was fantastic – a mix of mums all with the same priority and two humble (while highly qualified), approachable, funny, enthusiastic and above all knowledgeable leaders. I came out with new tools and I can’t wait to see the results.
– UK mum

My most popular topics…

No punishment. No bribes. What now???

What peaceful parenting really looks like & how you can make it work for your family.

Attending this workshop with Tosha was one of the most valuable steps I’ve taken to becoming a better parent…Tosha delivers the message with clarity, heart, authenticity… Watching her model how to interact with children using these tools was the greatest gift and will stay with me for a long time, helping me to bring greater love, compassion, and skill to my interactions with my children.
– Shannon

Out With Aggression!: THE WORKSHOP

Simple tools to stop aggressive behaviors & lift your parenting confidence.

The Out with Aggression workshop was a powerful dive into the processes behind aggression in children and ourselves. A small, intimate and safe group made it possible to dive openly into your own experience. It was a wonderful experience, informative, fun, safe, thought provoking with practical take home advice.
– Mum of a 5 year old

How to raise resilient, respectful boys.

Creating a more peaceful world by changing the way we parent our boys.